Comment on Hernia or rupture by candice.

I have a large hernia on my stomach after having gastric bypass two years ago but I had two right after the surgery and had mesh put in there to help it out I have had complication after complication from that surgery they also about lost me right after the surgery due to rebel failure then again two times after that Never in my life have I had any thing wrong with my kidneys .So the surgeon that did my surgery sent me to a Dr that specializes in hernias and he said it would be dangerous because of all the scar tissue since the surgery I constantly vomit after I eat and it really makes my belly like it is going to burst please help me to decide what to do I am 64 years old please.I want to watch my great grandchildren grow up.Thank you